Roger was born in Gorton so I
thought he might be in the main cemetery there but he was cremated here at
Blackley Crematorium about ten miles north of Manchester. I don’t know if his
ashes were strewn in the memorial gardens but I walked round them anyway.
He was an only child and born in a time slot that
forced men to endure two years of National Service. He joined the Royal Air
Force and played football there. He wasn’t judged to be good at it and swapped
to playing rugby. Leaving the RAF he continued his hobby and thankfully Joe
Armstrong - a Manchester United scout - was insightful enough to spot an
intangible magic (Joe who also spotted Duncan Edwards and a 15-year-old Bobby
Charlton.) His saw Roger's tackling, heading and goal-scoring skills were poor but
beyond the compass of logic he was a masterful, intuitive player. His main
skill was speed but to the untrained eye there was little else.
Roger was so insightful on the field that he
ended up being the captain of Manchester United, moving from amateur to
professional in a blink. Aged 22 he had a red shirt on his back and was only 26
when he was made captain. His poor basic skills were outweighed by the kind of
football intelligence that can’t be taught. He had a cool reading of the field,
foresaw danger quickly so he could position himself for an instant reaction,
joined forward attacks when defenders were meant to stay back. Moreover he had
a charisma that only leaders have (I read he was a father-figure to the younger
lads) and he could instil stamina into the tired legs of players on the other
side of the field.
He played for MU 245 times and was on the team
when they won the league in 1952, 1956 and 1957. He scored 17 goals (not bad
for a defender.) He played for England 33 times. Sadly the glitter turned to
dust when he was 28 when he died in the Munich Air Disaster. He was the oldest
of the eight players who perished that afternoon in 1958. Had he survived he’d
have returned home to find his wife Joy was pregnant.
I had a stroll around the big crematorium and had
a few saluting photos taken. The building is of good condition so I’m sure it’s
been refurbished couple of times since 1958. I had a wander around the memorial
gardens and saw the usual photos of people on tree trunks, birthday cards in
cellophane and plastic windmills. As usual I looked up at the chimney that must
have taken a patina of Roger’s ashes into the ether. The funeral service was
held at Flixton parish church and the burning was done
here. As with most of the players families there must have been many people at
the service who were numbed by a collective grief. All the players were young
and most left behind wives, parents and kids. A plane crash killing football
stars was surreal and unknown at the time. At least Roger’s family knew the end
was instant and he wasn’t in hospital for weeks before expiring. In Manchester
there’s now a Roger Byrne Close.
I had a stroll around the sprawling cemetery and
wondered how weird fate is: some MU players survived the plane crash. If Robert
had sat in another seat he might have survived. If it hadn’t snowed that day or
if the house the plane clipped hadn't been built everyone would have survived.
I wondered if Roger’s son ever came and walked around here. Eight months after
Roger’s death his son Roger Junior was born (sadly dying of cancer aged 53.) I
did a salute and left.
At the rear where Roger was
cremated...
The funeral service at Flixton...
The crash site now...