John Albert "Bobby"
Dykins was the partner of Julia Lennon. Seven years after her death he died in
a car crash aged 47. I'm not sure if this is a coincidence but the headstones
face one another.
Julia started
courting him a year after she gave birth to Victoria (after a dalliance with a
sailor). He worked at the Adelphi Hotel in Liverpool as a wine steward and it's
thought she was attracted to his access to rationed goods like. He had a bad
temper and could be violent when inebriated. John nicked named him
"Twitchy" because of a nervous tic/cough. The couple had two daughters
together - Julia and Jackie.
Bobby and Julia
didn't marry (Julia never divorced her first husband Alf) but "lived in
sin." Later on Bobby managed several bars in Liverpool which allowed Julia
to stay at home and look after their two daughters. John often visited and
stayed overnight at their home (he gave John one shilling/week pocket money for
doing odd jobs.) John and Paul McCartney would rehearse in the bathroom of the
house where the acoustics "sounded like a recording studio".
Sadly was killed
in a car crash at the bottom of Penny Lane (John was not told about it for
months.)